By Jeanne
Because that vagina isn't going to expand on its own.
Pussy clamps are generally not a device that gets much attention from the general public and I'm not sure why. When most people hear the words "sex toys" they immediately think of dildos, vibrators and anal plugs.
And while I kind of understand where this is coming from, it's a shame that more perverts aren't aware of all the options available to them.
For myself, I didn't know about pussy clamps until several years after I became sexually active. As a finally fulfilled adult with a healthy love life, I know I can count on pussy clamps to do many things I only dreamed of doing before.
Best of all, my partner(s) also like me to use pussy clamps.
Unlike other types of sex toys and BDSM toolsPussy clamps are timeless, tasteful and enticing all at the same time. I've only met one person in my entire life who didn't like the look and feel of a pussy clip.
And I'm not saying names here, but "Gina" had no idea what she was doing and her partner was no better at it than I was.
She didn't know how to put one on, how to adjust the tension and how to take it off, let alone use it in conjunction with other sex toys and/or role playing. I think expecting her or her partner to appreciate all that a pussy claw has to offer is a bit much to ask.
After all, none of them ever read the instructions.
Of course, even some of the manuals that accompany the best clamps are relatively difficult to understand (if you are a circus monkey).
In general, though, nipple and pussy clamps are all made pretty much the same, with similar functionality and features. There's nothing rocket science about this, Gina, but I digress.
A well-used pussy clamp is safe, sexy and so satisfying, but you can only enjoy these benefits if you get the education your teachers failed to give you in high school.
I have a ton of sex toys I could fall asleep on, but I'd rather spend my time giving you concrete advice from someone who knows. It's hard work, but someone has to do it.
In this buying guide, you'll learn what a catnip is (and isn't). You'll also discover the main reasons for the worldwide popularity of this product.
Then I'll give you some tips on how to find the right device for you or your partner.
Once that is done, I will show you three of the best products on the market today. So settle into your seats and get ready to get your PhD in pussy clamps. You are a gentleman and a scholar, sir.
What are clit clamps?
When I was first introduced to pussy clamps and genital torture, I was naturally intimidated. But once I discovered how simple and potentially pleasurable pussy clamps were, I opened my mind, heart and legs for a little experimentation.
A traditional pussy clamp is simply a secure fastening device that fits snugly into the vagina. It can either hold together or spread the flaps and folds of your genital area, leaving your opening and clitoris fully exposed.
Pussy clamps are commonly used in BDSM rooms and dungeons around the world, but their relatively user-friendly design has made them more common in recent decades.
Modern pussy clamps are made in a wide variety of materials, shapes, colors and components.
And while many of them work in unique ways, the general purpose of a pussy clamp is to exert inward pressure on the wearer's private parts.
These sleek and sexy tools can be used by anyone, regardless of skin or body type, and can be used intermittently with other sex toys, worn long-term under clothing, paired with other restraints, and locked to ensure the perfect position or view for as long as desired.
So while most people think that pussy clamps are only for people who like pain, this is not the case at all.
In fact, today's best pussy clamps come with a wide range of comfort features for those who like to play with sub/dom relationships without enduring or inflicting as much discomfort.
Features like removable clamp covers, adjustable chains and customizable bite force help beginners get used to a practice that has been celebrated since ancient times - pussy clamping like a pro.
So what makes this product so appealing and why should you jump on the bandwagon? I thought you'd never ask.
Why use a clitoral forceps?
Some might read the definition of a pussy claw and think, "Why on earth would anyone want to use one of these?". Still others might read the information and think, "This is exactly what I've been looking for."
Sure, pussy clamps aren't a sex toy made for everyone, but anyone who appreciates quality BDSM will know exactly what I'm talking about when I say these things are amazing.
In fact, the average user generally benefits from a pussy clamp in the following 5 ways:
- Pussy clamps can improve the appearance of the vagina.
With the right pussy clamps, you can enhance the appearance of the vagina. Some clamps spread the inner and outer labial folds to expose the opening and canal - a wonderful view for anyone who enjoys vaginal voyeurism and/or controlled stimulation.
With polished chains and high-end hardware, the glittering metal of a high-end pussy clip shines against the skin to create an exotic look that is extremely pleasing to the eye, regardless of the body type wearing it.
- Pussy clamps can increase arousal
Whether it's because you enjoy looking at an exposed vagina or simply because you like having that kind of control, a well-made pussy clamp can increase the arousal of both the wearer and the kinky voyeur in the room.
Plus, the intense and customizable sensations provided by the clamp itself are enough to make most women quiver with pleasure. Use it properly and everyone gets a piece of the action.
- Pussy clamps can improve orgasm
When arousal is at its peak and all the sex toys in play are working properly, orgasms tend to be much more extreme.
Full-body stimulation is surprising for such a cute, compact device, but since it's securely attached to one of your most sensitive erogenous zones, it makes perfect sense that a good clamping device would revolutionize the way you enjoy sex and/or masturbation.
And as we all know, partners usually react positively when their lovers have a good time.
- Pussy clamps can offer better control to the Dom
Keeping your submissive in position is hard enough without ropes, swings and other gear. But even when you have your submissive right where you want him, keeping his pussy open and ready for use is a pain in the ass.
I find that pussy clamps make it easier for me to dominate effectively, patiently and professionally without having to incorporate more complex/costly mechanisms. It's a money saver, for sure, but more importantly it's a reputation saver.
- Pussy clamps embody the 3 S's: Safe, sexy and satisfying
High-quality cat clamps are safe because they are made from materials that meet industry standards and strict manufacturing guidelines. They are often equipped with additional safety features.
They are sexy because they not only provide a service, but they are also very aesthetically pleasing. All this makes these sex toys one of the most satisfying products on the market today.
No wonder they've been around for so long, and no wonder they're not going away anytime soon.
Knowing what a pussy grabber is and understanding why people use them is just the beginning. Marketers already know what you know, and they are ready and willing to use it against you.
But as with any sex toy purchase, owning a pussy clip is a very personal thing. No amount of clever advertising can determine exactly what you need.
The only way to determine which one is best for you is to know yourself better than anyone else. On the other hand, you may want to take a look at what I have written down for you next.
The 7 best ways to know if your cat's claw is worth it or not
Because pussy clamps are a relatively simple product, many people mistakenly think that choosing one is easy. This is not only incorrect but also dangerous.
Étant donné que vos pinces à chatte seront solidement attachées à l’un des endroits les plus sensibles du corps, il est important de faire preuve de diligence pour trouver la meilleure pince.
When they're side by side, it's not too hard to tell the difference between a good clip and a bad one.
But when you're faced with an entire industry and don't know what to look for, the clever marketing techniques used by today's sex toy manufacturers can have you out of your mind in no time.
Save time, money and credibility by following these 7 tips to determine if the clit clip in your cart is worth it or not:
- The size
The size of any sex toy is extremely crucial, and pussy clamps are no exception, even though most are adjustable. Make sure that the size of your pussy clamp not only matches the size of your and/or your partner's vagina, but that it also fits their body type.
Today's best pussy clamps come in a wide variety of lengths, so make sure the one you buy can accommodate the type of pressure or control you're looking for.
Also keep in mind that the wearer will be moving around, so if the clips have attachments for nipples or other body parts, measure the total size to avoid injury or damage to your toy.
- The materials
Les pinces à chatte ne sont pas toutes fabriquées avec les mêmes matériaux. J’ai récemment passé en revue un combo pince à chatte/mamelon que je trouvais extrêmement génial, mais j’ai découvert par la suite qu’il contenait des phtalates (un produit chimique dont il a été prouvé un milliard de fois qu’il était nocif pour le corps humain).
Since you can't use condoms with pussy clamps to protect your skin, it's dangerous to play with your health in this way.
Always pay attention to the material your clamps and chains are made of.
Avoid phthalates and parabens and opt for safer materials for the skin, such as silicone, stainless steel, polyvinyl chloride (PVC), thermoplastic elastomer (TPE) or a material patented exclusively by a sex toy brand.
- The strength of the clasp
Each set of pussy clamps has clasps that vary in clamping strength. Find the one that offers the type of gentle pressure or extreme pinch you and/or your partner are looking for.
To do this, determine how the clasps are spread out and brought together. Is it a screw device, a button, a series of holes or something else? Do you even know how to use it properly to take advantage of the strength it offers without hurting anyone?
How much pleasure or pain are you trying to endure or provide? Make sure the pussy clamps you buy can do the job, otherwise you'll be a poor fellow.
- Adjustability
Fortunately, the majority of today's best pussy clamps have clasps and/or chains that are fully adjustable. However, the amount of adjustment varies considerably.
Not only is it important to know the overall length of the chain, but also to determine the size of the device. Adjustable pussy clamps are much easier to use than rigid clamps, but they may not offer the type of restriction you need.
There are also pussy clamps without a chain, but they are a little difficult to handle because they are small and easy to lose.
- The appearance
One of the most appealing aspects of a pussy clamp is its ability to enhance the appearance of the vagina. When worn correctly and taken full advantage of, pussy clamps can increase arousal and improve the quality of orgasm while also improving appearance (as mentioned earlier). But because it can and will do all of these things, it's important to make sure the product looks good when worn. Whether it's the materials, the extra features, or their execution, the appearance of your pussy clamps should never be overlooked.
- Sustainability
It doesn't matter if it's a car, a pair of jeans or a sex toy, the durability of it is extremely important to the experience you have with it. Pussy and nipple clamping devices are no different.
In fact, it's especially important that your pussy clamps are highly resistant to movement and removal attempts. It's best to choose pussy clamps that are made from high-quality, durable materials with exceptional construction.
Cheap products may not be expensive at first, but they can end up costing you your relationship. Good quality products rarely do.
- Compatibility
Did you know that some pussy clamps are compatible with other BDSM sex tools? Many top-quality models have adjustable, well-placed O-rings where you can hang weights or attach restrictive toys for even more control.
If you're interested in this feature, make sure the pussy clamps you choose have the user-friendly components you need to fulfill your little fantasies.
Keep in mind, however, that even pussy clamps with O-rings can be used with some types of sex toys (not just BDSM tools).
Honestly, I tried not to be so picky when choosing my pussy clamps, but I learned how wrong I was. Buying sex toys is an extremely personal decision, which means there are a lot of things to consider before spending money.
And unfortunately, knowing the top 7 things to look at and/or consider is just the beginning. You'll also need some valuable suggestions to help you get started.
After all, how do you know what the industry standards are? Don't worry, I'll take care of you.
My top 10 best clit clamps on the market in 2021:
I probably don't need to tell you this, but the modern sex toy market is flooded with options for the average BDSM lover. Even when it comes to specialty products like pussy and nipple clamps, the sheer number of choices available can make anyone fail and frustrate.
I'm not going to tell you that I've tried every pussy clamp out there. What I can tell you, however, is that the following three models have outperformed all the others I've tried.
Plus, they are considered by me (and most of my colleagues) to be the best of the best.
Fifty Shades Freed "All Sensation" clitoral and nipple combo.
BEST ENSEMBLE
The look, the feel, the functionality - it's all on par with the most luxurious clitoral forceps you'll ever have the privilege of using.
Fifty Shades of Freed's "All Sensation" nipple and clitoral clamp combo is downright divine, with an adjustable 27.5-inch polished metal chain that squeezes both nipples and clitoris with adjustable force.
The silicone clasps are easy to apply and remove, and the set comes in a sexy, sophisticated storage bag for added discretion. Thanks to the use of mini O-rings, this highly compatible sex toy paves the way for additional weight and restraint with other accessories.
PRO: This model uses a zipper system for a better fit and feel, and each collar has small balls for extra decoration.
CON: The chain is not very durable compared to some of the other options on this list.
Entice nipple and clitoris clamps with chain (and O-ring)
THE BEST FOR BEGINNERS
Ideal for those who love customizable BDSM and perfect for those new to pussy clamps, the Entice Nipple and Clit Clamps come with a sexy, polished metal chain that measures 25 inches in total length for easy adjustments on the fly.
Each of the three clamps can also be adjusted, and the unique gold finish matches any other metal sex toy you use.
Made from skin-friendly nickel-free metal with no tarnishing, these bad boys even have removable comfort pads on each of the clips so they can be worn all day and night or as needed by the dominant.
PRO: Not only is this product comfortable to wear when used correctly, but it's also suitable for almost any skin tone.
CON: The somewhat limited length of the chain may not be suitable for all body types or role-playing positions.
Extreme Restraints Stainless Steel Pussy Pliers
FOR EXPERTS ONLY
Made of stainless steel, industry-standard and skin-safe (lots of hyphens, sorry), this sturdy and durable little object fits perfectly over the vaginal opening and clitoris to spread the inner and outer lips for easy access.
Perfect for BDSM enthusiasts, this device is fully adjustable by turning the thumbscrews on each side. Choose between a light or tight squeeze and you'll be serving your subordinate just right with Extreme Restraints' stainless steel pussy clamp.
Tickle, tease and torment your partner like never before with this clamp that measures 3.3 inches in overall length, 1.15 inches in overall diameter and features a relatively lightweight design to prevent slipping, stretching and injury.
PRO: Each hypoallergenic clamp opens to a generous 1.25 inches wide, making this toy ideal for all kinds of body types.
CONS: The balls on the ends of the screws can come off if you don't take care to tighten them after each use.
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The end of the game
I understand that this buying journey is more complicated than the last home you bought, but that property never made you and/or your partner happy, so there's that.
If our major investments were the only things worth our full attention, then everything else in the world would essentially be junk. Do you honestly think your favorite sex toys are junk? I don't.
That's why it's important for consumers like us to be so picky.
Manufacturers only produce what we buy, so raise the bar and you'll start to have better options. For now, we have to take what is available to us.
But as long as the pussy clamps we choose provide a safe and satisfying sexual experience for us and/or our partners (hopefully more than once), that's all that matters.
Be careful, boys and girls. There may be sharks in the water, but your jaws are far more intimidating (and far sexier too).
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